Sex, Death & Cash
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You Can Have It
On armor, softening, and the love on the other side.
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Hard To Love Without Knowing It
On receptivity, entitlement, and letting love land
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One Year In, Still Breathing
One year of essays on desire, mortality, and money. To celebrate, new paid subscriptions are 10% off for one week only. Here's…
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The Sluttiest Guy in His Class
On desire, double standards, and a song that takes me back.
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Turns Out, Money Buys Happiness More than You Think
New research from Wharton's Matthew Killingsworth shows happiness keeps rising with income, but not for the reasons you'd think.
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The Ceremony I Didn’t Want
On resistance, control, and getting what you asked for in the worst possible way
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No Good Goodbye
Some goodbyes come too soon. Others take forever.
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Nary a Thigh Dimple in Sight
On success, sex, suits, and other things I got wrong
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The Unexpected Secret Message from a Little Tree
On belonging, breath work, and breaking the outsider story.
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The Sluttiest Guy in His Class
On desire, double standards, and a song that takes me back.
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Three Threesomes: An Education
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No, Not Like That
On waiting too long to speak up in bed and what it costs
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All That Sugar
On desire and its discontents.
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The Way You Load the Dishwasher Could Be Killing Your Sex Life
On anxiety, control, and choosing desire over being right
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On Being Met (and What Changed When I Opened)
A story about anger, safety, and learning how to be available.
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When Sex Starts To Feel like Work
What to do when your body’s here, your mind’s elsewhere, and you miss your own heat.
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The Beautiful Hunger for Flow
How the pursuit of immersion, intensity, and transcendence can wreck us—or refine us—depending on where we aim it.
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The Most Natural Thing in the World
What the ocean has to teach us about family, gender, and flexibility
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No Good Goodbye
Some goodbyes come too soon. Others take forever.
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When Life Knocks You Into Center
How the documentary, "Come See Me in the Good Light," woke me up to presence, mortality, and what actually matters.
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When You Know, You Know
When the thing that once protected you becomes the thing keeping you tethered.
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The Inner Chamber — Death
In which I tell the story of my mother's death for the first time
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The Devoted Hand You’re Holding, The Beauty You Almost Missed
On how death isn’t here to scare us, but to remind us to pay attention.
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Choosing Life in the Wake of Loss
How a college heartbreak and a hunger for aliveness shaped the woman I’d become.
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The Beauty of a Rare Human Who Doesn't Look Away
On Andrea Gibson and the radical permission to live (and die) wide open
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On DYING FOR SEX Pt 1: The Best Depiction of Death
The most raw, true, beautiful portrayal of dying (spoilers ahead)
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It’s a Beautiful Day to Die (and Drink a Flat White)
Notes on Mother's Day and liminal space
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Turns Out, Money Buys Happiness More than You Think
What a happiness researcher taught me about money, control, and why golf is making me insufferable
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Yes Meets No: When Opposites Attract in Love & Cash
Unlocking deeper freedom and connection from the bedroom to your bank account.
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Hidden Rules That Shape Our Sense Of Class
How conditioning lingers in the way progressive rich folks working toward justice approach wealth and class.
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The Most Dangerous Kind of Rich Girl
What no one tells you about inherited wealth, shame, and the quiet work of becoming fully human.
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