THE TABOO TRILOGY
Published weekly on Substack.
Sex
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The Midlife Sex Guide: What I Use to Stay Turned On
For you to feel good, stay wet, and keep wanting it.
Your Pussy Isn’t Done
What I use to feel good, stay wet, and keep wanting it
The Sluttiest Guy in His Class
On desire, double standards, and a song that takes me back.
Three Threesomes: An Education
No, Not Like That
On waiting too long to speak up in bed and what it costs
All That Sugar
On desire and its discontents.
The Way You Load the Dishwasher Could Be Killing Your Sex Life
On anxiety, control, and choosing desire over being right
On Being Met (and What Changed When I Opened)
A story about anger, safety, and learning how to be available.
When Sex Starts To Feel like Work
What to do when your body’s here, your mind’s elsewhere, and you miss your own heat.
Death
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Death, but Make It Beautiful
What my favorite K-drama got right about dying
No Good Goodbye
Some goodbyes come too soon. Others take forever.
When Life Knocks You Into Center
How the documentary, "Come See Me in the Good Light," woke me up to presence, mortality, and what…
When You Know, You Know
When the thing that once protected you becomes the thing keeping you tethered.
The Inner Chamber — Death
In which I tell the story of my mother's death for the first time
The Devoted Hand You’re Holding, The Beauty You Almost Missed
On how death isn’t here to scare us, but to remind us to pay attention.
Choosing Life in the Wake of Loss
How a college heartbreak and a hunger for aliveness shaped the woman I’d become.
The Beauty of a Rare Human Who Doesn't Look Away
On Andrea Gibson and the radical permission to live (and die) wide open
On DYING FOR SEX Pt 1: The Best Depiction of Death
The most raw, true, beautiful portrayal of dying (spoilers ahead)
Cash
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Turns Out, Money Buys Happiness More than You Think
What a happiness researcher taught me about money, control, and why golf is making me insufferable
Yes Meets No: When Opposites Attract in Love & Cash
Unlocking deeper freedom and connection from the bedroom to your bank account.
Hidden Rules That Shape Our Sense Of Class
How conditioning lingers in the way progressive rich folks working toward justice approach wealth and class.
The Most Dangerous Kind of Rich Girl
What no one tells you about inherited wealth, shame, and the quiet work of becoming fully human.
The Rest of Life
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OneTaste
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What Facing Aversion Taught Me About Unconditional Love
A story about consent, consciousness & staying present at discomfort's edge.
I Reached Out to His Girlfriend
What I learned about communication, capacity, and staying in the conversation.
Have You Ever Been Wanted When You Least Expected It?
A story from my first OneTaste immersion about attention, permission, and real turn-on.
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